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jenni_b
#1 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:19:06 PM Quote
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hello everyone

Not the most popular people in the CAMHS Waiting room as we took 1.5 hrs but we have a psychiatrist who has done us a great service today.

She has written to say;

1) Gemma's needs cannot be met within a family. She needs specialist round the clock care to be able to integrate her persona's.

2)Gemma's needs a therapeutic community. Her educational, social and living needs need to come under a 24 hr therapeutic programme it is impossible to deliver in any other way.

3) We remain her parents and it is no different to a child going into a boarding school or hospital to live in. this should be set up immediately.

4) She is to be seen at the Gt Ormond street specialist hospital unit for further investigation in due course.

5) This should be achieved through tripartite funding.

I would have thought Social Services will have to do it. They will have to! SURELY. She is the final medical/ therapeutic person we needed to see. which means that 2/3 of people there are in agreement who are experts in the field of adoptive and like families!

We have a supportive friend who has got a therapeutic community place for her lovely young lady.
The Psychiatrist gave me a hug. What a nice lady!

Now for the big meetings tomorrow

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#2 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:23:17 PM Quote
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Smile ThumpUp Thast good outcome Jenni,
hugs prayers for tomorrow.
ncie see pschy lady so kind to you.

lots lv thinking of you all.
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#3 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:26:27 PM Quote
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Good news Jenni, so happy that things are going in the right direction.
Take care x
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#4 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:26:48 PM Quote
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well done Jenni. Everything crossed for omorrow.
lots of love,
Jan x
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#5 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:32:55 PM Quote
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This is wonderful news for all of you. The young person concerned will get the appropriate help in her residential 'boarding' school and her holidays can be spent at her home with her family when she is more stable! I cannot see any objections to this from a non-medical person Jenni. it is going to be fine my darling.

Sending lots of good luck for tomorrow,

Will be thinking of you,

Eleanor x
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#6 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:35:42 PM Quote
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Oh Jenni THANK GOD! You are ALL in our prayers constantly
Much love
Jeanxxxxxx
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#7 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:50:22 PM Quote
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What a relief Jenni!
Now praying for the best outcome tomorrow.

Love and hugs,
Doreen xx
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#8 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:53:58 PM Quote
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Thank GOD Jenni! I am so happy to hear your news and will keep praying....

Well done, you must be exhausted beyond belief..

Love,
A
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#9 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:57:34 PM Quote
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#10 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 7:00:01 PM Quote
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Sincerely hope the good news carries on for you all and especially Gemma. Will be thinking of you all tomorrow.

Julie
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#11 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 7:10:34 PM Quote
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Hi Jenni,

Sounds like you had a very good meeting with all the experts present and being supportive. I think the only hurdle that you now have to face is with the funding agreement. Not sure how it's done in your area, but what usually happens is that a social worker collates the reports from the respective professionals involved to form a multi-disciplinary needs assessment and then presents the case to a panel who hopefully will agree the funding. In your case funding will have to come from health, education, and social services.

Good luck and hope all goes well tomorrow,

Love,

Barbara
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#12 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 8:30:54 PM Quote
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Thinking of you all.

Ann x
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#13 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 8:55:18 PM Quote
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Fingers crossed for tomorrow, Jenni. Will be thinking of you all.

Anthea x
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#14 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 9:47:13 PM Quote
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great news jenni- fingers crossed x
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#15 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 9:59:06 PM Quote
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good news at last for you all
Jenni I am so pleased I will pray for you tomorrow
love to you all
Mary L
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#16 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 10:00:56 PM Quote
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Will continuing praying for you all Jenni, Prayers and thoughts coming your way, Much love Alison.xxx
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#17 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 11:30:25 PM Quote
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So pleased things are moving forwards and positive news, take care, sleep well and we'll be thinking / praying and hoping again with you tomorrow xx
Never underestimate the power of prayer and positive thoughts!
Love Liz xx
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#18 Posted : Wednesday, December 09, 2009 8:28:03 AM Quote
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wishing you the best today xfx
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